The childhood survival strategy that's hijacking your adult love life — and how to rewire your nervous system in 8 weeks


You feel instant "chemistry" with emotionally unavailable people?
Healthy relationships feel "boring" or "too easy"?
You can spot red flags but ignore them anyway?
Your body says "yes" when your mind says "no"?
The answer isn't about self-worth or boundaries. It's about your nervous system.

SECRET #1
Why your nervous system has been choosing your partners (and how childhood survival strategies become adult attraction patterns)

SECRET #2
How trauma tricks your brain into mistaking chaos for chemistry (and the "chemistry test" that reveals true compatibility)

SECRET #3
How to reprogram your nervous system to choose healthy love in just 8 weeks (the daily practice that rewires your "picker")
You feel instant "chemistry" with emotionally unavailable people?
You feel powerless over who you're attracted to
Healthy people feel "boring" while toxic people feel like "home"
You want to understand the REAL reason you're stuck in these patterns
MEET YOUR GUIDE
Nervous System Specialist and creator of The SHINING Method™

"I know what it's like to wake up one day and not recognize the woman in the mirror. After surviving emotional, spiritual, financial, physically and sexual abuse with my ex-fiancé, I discovered something shocking: my nervous system had been choosing familiar chaos over healthy love my entire life.
It wasn't about self-worth. It wasn't about boundaries. It was about generational patterns formed in childhood—patterns that made chaos feel like chemistry and safety feel boring.

The abuse escalated until I was physically assaulted—that's when I finally broke the silence. But the real breakthrough came when I understood WHY I had stayed so long: my body was choosing what felt familiar, not what was healthy.
Once I learned to rewire my nervous system using the techniques I now teach, everything changed. I went from attracting abusers to marrying my calm, secure husband. Now I help women break these invisible patterns—not just for themselves, but for their entire lineage."

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November 20th, 2025 | 7PM CT
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